We all have TWO Choices:

We can make a living OR we can design a life.
Jim Rohn - Business counsellor


N
ow you've reached the part of the web site where we get serious for a few moments! We're going to get serious about where you are going, where you want to go, and how you're going to get there. We will be able to consider every aspect of your life, from careers right through to relationships.

Career

  • Increase of Income
  • More Fulfilling and Challenging Projects
  • Less Stressful and more Relaxed Working Environment
  • Better Sense of Self Worth and General Recognition

Relationships with your

  • Children - be their ultimate hero!
  • Spouse - have them begging for more!
  • Friends - be the most popular person in town!
  • Colleagues - command their respect and have them eating out of your hands!


"If You do not think about the future,
You CANNOT have one."

John Galsworthy (1867-1933) Writer

There is a new phenomenon, which has infiltrated the corporate and sporting world, and it has taken it by storm. Now you're going to learn all about it from someone who is responsible for increasing awareness and giving advice to people who want to embark upon this world for themselves.

So what is the technical term for this new system which has hit our shores?

LIFECOACHING

To get a good understanding about what lies at the heart of Life Coaching, lets refer to Harvard educationalist and tennis expert Timothy Gallwey:

"Coaching is unlocking a person's potential to maximise their own performance. It is helping them to learn rather than teaching them."

So how does it work exactly?

"Minds are like parachutes - they only function when open."
Thomas Dewar - Chemist & Physicist

Get ready to open your mind…

  • Awareness
  • Responsibility


AWARENESS
is the 'product of focused attention, concentration and clarity'. By being able to focus and direct attention at will through concentration, it produces clarity. Clarity as in how you will set about achieving a goal, or even as to what the goal should be in the first place. Awareness also brings to your attention what maybe preventing you from reaching your specified goal.

"I am able to control only that which I am aware of. That which I am unaware of controls me. AWARENESS empowers me." - John Whitmore, author

By creating higher levels of awareness in an individual, it naturally leads the person towards the second part of the coaching equation… Responsibility

RESPONSIBILITY is the willingness to respond honestly and ethically to the consequences of one's actions and thoughts. Responsibility is taking ownership for oneself and one's actions as a matter of choice. As Joe Gough observed after seeing the benefits of coaching for better performance,

"You can make a man run,
but you can't make him run fast!"

When you decide to do something for yourself by choice as opposed to when you have been told or ordered to do it, perhaps against your will, something interesting happens. Your level of self-motivation rises dramatically!

'Unleashing the Creative Juices'

Coaching is about getting the creative juices flowing, opening up channels from which we can pull great inspiration. The coach is not supplying the answers. It is just a matter of creating and keeping focus; gently bringing you back on track.

'Time to GROW'

A model which is frequently used amongst coaches, is the mnemonic GROW. This is used in order to establish the sequence in which a coach could ask you questions.

  • Goal (what you want)
  • Reality (where you are now)
  • Options (the various ways you can go about creating it)
  • Will (what you're prepared to do in order to achieve it)


"There's a difference between
what you do and what you can do."

David O. Selznick (1902-1965) Movie producer

The levels of success people have had from having their own life coach has been staggering! Here we look at what life coaching has done for Miss H, a single mother working in the travel industry.

"Miss H came to me at a particularly low point in her life. She was stuck in a job that she hated. Everyday her colleagues would make her life a misery. She would stare at her watch willing time to fly by so that she could just get home. 

The stress at work was effecting her family life. The long hours, coupled with low pay and a daily assault on her self-esteem were making it hard for Miss H to hold her head up high and be the kind of mother she wanted to be. Her health was deteriorating… She realised she had to get out, and SOON! This is when she decided that Life Coaching was her way forward.

Miss H made it her goal to find a job which she actually enjoyed! In no time at all she had resigned from her old job. She had negotiated two months salary with her resignation.

One week later and Miss H suddenly found herself faced with a different set of 'problems' that she had never been faced with before. She was agonising over the fact that she had FOUR job offers and she didn't know which one to choose! Each of the four companies were desperately trying to ensure that she would go and work for them. She was even being offered 2 and a half times more than her old salary along with other company perks!

Who do you think calls the shots now? Miss H is now working hours which suit her and her daughter. She is in a better paid job with a company she loves, and life these days feels a lot more fulfilling and exciting…

Do the tools behind coaching work? I think we both know the answer to that one now!"

Why have I told you about Miss H? Maybe you're sitting there feeling that none of this relates to you… and the chances are it won't! But what does relate to you are the benefits you can and will get from having your own personal life coach.

Imagine what kind of advantage it will give you when you find yourself doing it:

· Better
· Faster
· Moving Forward
· Making Changes
· Creating a Successful
and Fulfilling Self-Image
· Achieving More!!

If you are intrigued and would like to experience the power of coaching for yourself, then click below now before the moment passes.

I'M READY TO FIND OUT MORE

"A Life without a Cause
Is a Life without Effect"

 

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